the bad dominicana

strugglingtobeheard:

make a post about how i don’t wanna fuck niggas age 18-22 because i got years on they ass, get 100 of notes of little nigga hate.

make a post about how dudes dick game is not better than a lesbian or queer person just because he rams his dick inside someone, post gains over 200 and more hate of people telling me i am behaving like a rape victim/should have something violent happen to me.

say someone is a bum ass nigga, get a dissertation of passive aggressive built up feelings by someone who supposedly doesn’t take me very seriously.

make a twerk video specifically for mothers day, directed at women, get comments on my body, my brains, my sexual capabilities and of course, hate. 

but the misogyny i am pointing out is non-existent. but these men are just the most unfortunate disadvantaged people and Black women have everything, so we should shut up. this is exactly why i feel the way i do, say what i do, behave the way i do. and this is exactly why people like this and i will never jive because their violent views about people like me who speak piece about something that needs to be said are opposed to one another. and their egos are soooo fragile that they depend on the boot on our necks to feel big. to build themselves. and best believe, women will buy into it too because it will allow them some peace from the same treatment they will have reserved for them when they speak out of line too. 

life as a black woman.

le sigh