That’s why you see these men out here married to just any damn body.
Just any ol generic ass girl.
Cause she was THERE and into him, and he was familiar with her when he was READY.
Commitment and marriage happens WHEN THE MAN IS READY and not a minute before.
And men will make themselves ‘love’ the random, generic chick who’s There when they find themselves ready for the responsibility of a wife and family.
They’ll fake it til they make it, yes, seen it too many times.
Yes, people get married without being in actual love every single day.
Y’all gon learn.
OMG, you kids gon fuckin learn.
YUP. I’ve seen this happen. My father is a classic example. He married my stepmother when he was once again READY for marriage, but he passed over a better woman (mostly because his mom convinced him otherwise, bet she’s spinning in her grave now).
But like yes. I’ve seen men married to women and everyone in the universe is like “WHY” and you can tell the affection is forced because he knows he made the decision when he was ready and now he’s stuck in a loveless marriage with kids.
My dad did this and now he’s stuck because he didn’t even WANT kids with this woman. She coerced him into it.
But girl, I don’t know wtf I’m talking about.
A bunch of 17-22 year olds are calling me wrong on the internet cause NOT EVERYBODY.
Girl, if these gatdamn kids don’t sit they asses the fuck DOWN, tho.
And yes, everybody can see he don’t really love her,
But after a few years, he GROWS to “love” her cause they got kids and hey, he jumped cause he was ready.
But is he happy?
Is SHE fulfilled?
It’s TOO many marriages like this, but I’m ZZZZzzzzzzzZZZZZ